February 20, 2011

budapest, you da best

One of my favorite things about living in Europe is that a weekend getaway to another country is super easy. So, late in January, Jaime and I met up for a long weekend in Budapest, Hungary. Just a hop, skip and a 2 hour plane ride away and there I was waiting for Jaime at the airport trying to figure out the Hungarian word for arrivals so I could actually find her (it's Érkezés if you ever need to know). I was just happy to be on solid ground after developing a increasingly irrational fear of flying over the past year. Flying gets to me more and more because I don't trust machines to function correctly all the time and I don't trust people to not make stupid mistakes. Seeing as flying is a combination of these two things, I'm always expecting a wing to fall off or the pilot to push the wrong button. With every flight I've taken recently, something happens that pushes me a little closer to insanity every time I board a plane. This trip was no exception.

It started while I was boarding the plane. First of all, I should say that I was flying with easyjet, a low fare airline that flies in and out of obscure airports all over Europe, let's you check in online 60 days in advance, only allows one carry on item per person with a 10 kg (22 lbs) max weight limit,
sometimes you have to walk out on the tarmac to board the plane and it also has a first come first serve seating policy once you're on the plane so there's no prearranged seating assignments. It's kind of terrifying. Sometimes people clap when the plane lands and in my mind I'm wondering if they're clapping because successful landings are rare. I'll never understand it. Flights like this are super popular in Europe though, so I do it - but I'm always watching everything and everyone with a critical eye (as if I have any control over the situation). As I'm boarding this particular flight to Budapest, I spot the pilot in the cockpit right before I get on the plane and I see him scribble something on a piece of paper, jab a hole through the middle of it and stick it on a knob on the control panel. Once I choose my seat, I've got time before take off to think about what the pilot wrote. Actually, it's all I could think about. The more I thought about it, the more it bothered me and finally I convinced myself that he had written one of these:


Needless to say, I spent the majority of takeoff and landing in panic attack mode hoping that he would at least read the reminder about the wheels. I hate landing. Naturally, I decided that I would look online later to calm my fears about the intelligence level and experience of easyjet pilots because I'm still convinced that my pilot's note held more importance than something like call mom or buy milk. So I look at the website. Bad idea:

Recently we’ve been looking for pilots with a minimum of 1,500 hours, but as a result of the feedback we have received, we will be relaxing this requirement, in favour of placing more emphasis on “quality” of hours achieved.


Relaxing requirements? I need Xanax.

But I made it to Budapest. Wheels on the tarmac and all. And the city was beautiful.

Jaime and I crammed a lot of fun things into a few short days. We did a lot of walking around and, since it was January, a lot of warming up in caf
és. We were both surprised with the food and wine in Hungary. Everything we had was so delicious...Jaime and I both ate dinners that placed within our top five meals ever...who knew Hungarians can cook?!

One day we hit up Budapest's famous
Gellért Thermal Baths. It's not normally my thing to sit and stew in other peoples' filth, but these baths are something Hungary is known for so Jaime and I wanted to at least try it. Mostly, we had heard/read that the inside of this particular bath was beautifully decorated with stained glass and mosaics; the interior had been compared to that of a cathedral so we had to see it. It was basically us two Minnesota prudes amongst shameless naked 70 year old women. We stayed for a little over an hour, mostly people watching and turning into prunes. All in all, it was pretty (err..the interior was pretty- not the old women), relaxing and entertaining. I'm not sure if the thermal baths healed me in any way, but at least I now know the general idea of what my ass will look like at 70.

We went on quite an adventure one morning trying to find a flea market that was mentioned in our travel books. We have both been to flea markets in other countries and were super excited for the potential of this one because it was talked up in our books. It was definitely off in its own part of the city, a little difficult to find but finally we stumbled upon it at the edge of a park. Jaime was excited to find some vintage pottery and I was on a mission to find an antique skeleton key. We get to the entrance and it turns out we have to pay to get in. We look at each other, a little confused because that's not normal, but we assume that good things in life aren't free and we have to pay the price to get into the awesome flea market...

Fold out table upon fold out table of crap. Useless crap. It's like the clearance shelf of a gas station convenience store. Batteries, cracked cd's, diapers, hairbrushes, a scumbag selling Hungarian porn, expired crackers, cigarette lighters, etc. We cruise around to make sure that's really all there is and promptly leave.

It's ok though - the city was cool enough to compensate for the
piles and piles of crap flea market debacle.


me, on a bridge


Jaime making friends with a German language enthusiast to get directions


My favorite thing in Budapest - the vintage metro cars


one of our coffee breaks


Jaime leading the way to Buda Castle


Parliament at night


Buda Castle at night

January 21, 2011

525,600 minutes

How do you measure a year? Actually, I'm a nerd and googled how many minutes are really in a year and it's 525,948.766 minutes, but that just doesn't have the same effect when you're trying to cram it into Seasons of Love from Rent...I see the problem and the need for a modification in order to make the song work. The point is, a year ago today I landed in France ready for my big adventure. Here's how I would measure my year:

in visitors





in vacations

in strange foods

in lunch dates with Marie

in cheese

in bread

in wine


I could also measure my year in new friends, homework, skype dates, metro problems, second-hand smoke, chocolate croissants, cultural misunderstandings, ups, downs, and many more things that make me smile (or, sometimes cringe). I'm looking forward to the next 525,948.766 minutes...and at the moment it doesn't seem like enough. I love it here.

January 20, 2011

growing pains


Ok well, I'm not in Minneapolis but I am back in Paris...again, already, finally - I'm not really sure which word to use here. My trip home was strange because it felt long but short, it made me happy but sad, I was busy but bored, and the list goes on. December was a month of growing pains for me on a few different levels. The first big thing that happened was the day after I arrived in Minnesota - I turned 26, tipping the scale slightly closer to 30 than I'm comfortable with. This is the first year where I feel old, where I look at my friends and think they're old and I look at my family (no offense, guys) and think they're really old if I'm already 26. Worry not, I took a trip to Target with Jaime (well...one of several hundred trips to Target) and she took me to the vitamin aisle where I had a silent breakdown and started my vitamin enriched 26th year. So far, so good.

With my birthday came one of the biggest snowstorms that Minnesota ha
s seen in the past few decades...we were completely snowed in my first full day at home, but we were still able to go outside to relax and enjoy the view...

Although the storm foiled plans for a little birthday celebration with friends, at the end of the day it felt good to be home, snowed in with my favorite cake, good wine and good company - mostly by choice but also because it was the only option. This year I will be turning 26 again, FYI. 27 is just not an option.


Another growing pain while I was home came in the form of unwanted pounds added on to the scale. After being gone for a year, it was hard to turn down my favorite snacks and meals so I just decided to go for it and indulge...in everything. Chipotle, lattes, home cooked meals, hint of lime tortilla chips, cookies, bagels, you name it - I ate it. It felt good to come back to Paris and go back to my normal eating habits, though. When I got back I wasn't hungry for a week. All is good on the scale again...although my Chipotle cravings are beginning to resurface again. Word on the street is that Paris will be getting one this spring. I'm trying to contain my excitement and not worry about the fact that burritos will probably be $30 in France. More to come on that, though.

The last growing pain I experienced while I was home was dealing with friendships tha
t maybe I've outgrown or they've outgrown me. My time at home with friends surprised me - some friendships I expected to feel different but felt the same, and others that I thought would pick up where we left off felt different - like a kind of tangible emptiness had wedged its way in over the course of the year. I always thought keeping up with friendships was my "thing" that I'm good at, but I'm finding it's difficult to do with the distance for an extended period of time and that makes me sad. I thought three weeks would be enough time to see everyone but it really wasn't - I didn't get to see everyone and the people I did spend time with was only for a few hours, just enough to check in and catch up before I was on the plane again.

So to sum it up, home was good...
I spent time with good friends


and family, too (again with the eating. here are my great aunts with about 15 different kinds of desserts for 11 people...pretty standard)

...
I laughed a lot.

and got my ass kicked in scrabble.

November 23, 2010

oregano

How have I been? Busy. I need to quit saying things like "I literally could not be busier than I am right now" because I've said that several times in the past few months and if anything, I get busier.

It seems like everyone has telltale signs that correspond with how busy
they are. Here are mine:
- my gmail inbox surpasses the average 5-7 emails that are usua
lly hanging around. instead of reading and responding, i read and forget and the pile grows to like 50 (ok, 15. not that many people email me)
- i repeat things
- i ask my students how their weekends were...on Friday
- my bedroom is on the receiving end of what looks like a closet explosion - reject outfits don't make their way back to where they came from
- i repeat things
- the only things in my refrigerator are necessities: diet coke, bread, yogurt

More recently, I've developed some sort of memory issue that seems to be a result of my increasingly busy schedule. I noticed this a few weeks ago when ma
king my mom's spaghetti (side note, YUM) and discovered an unusual abundance of oregano in my cupboard. I never really cook with oregano so the fact that I'm now set for the next few years concerns me. Over the span of a week or two, I kept passing the spice rack at the grocery store, stopped in my tracks and thought to myself "Ohmygod! I need oregano for spaghetti...good thing I remembered while I was here!" Well that thought must have crossed my mind about four times because that's how many brand new jars I have. The worst part? I specifically remember now, looking back, walking by the spice rack each time and being so happy that I remembered to get oregano because it wasn't on my list. So I'm set on the oregano front and have some to spare if anyone out there is running low...

In order to control the crazy, I made the difficult decision over the weekend to quit my job teaching English. I have two weeks left and then I'm moving on to something that's a little less of a time committment on my end. I'm not exactly sure what my next adventure will be, but I'm looking forward to a change. In the meantime - I've got loads of schoolwork to finish before I return to Minnesota for winter break. 17 days! Trust me - when you start a countdown from 70 something days and finally get into the teens, it's cause for celebration! I'm so excited to see everyone and to get my Chipotle fix.

And lastly, Happy Birthday to the girl who loved Paris just as much as I do! My best friend, Rachael, passed away two years ago would have been 25 today. I'm happy to be in Paris enjoying the city but wish she could be here to see it all again. Here are some of my favorite pictures from when she came to visit in 2006